CHOOSING A METHOD

Contraception: Choosing What Actually Suits You

Every method compared on how well it works in real life rather than in trials, including the two Indian options most guides leave out, and how to start, switch or stop.

Reviewed by Dr. Grishma Ranjangaonkar, MBBS, DGO, ICOG Fellowship in Gynecological Endoscopy · Eva WomanCare Clinic, Vashi

The best method of contraception is not the one with the highest number on a chart. It is the one you will still be using in two years, that fits what you want your body to do and when you want a pregnancy. This guide sets out what each option actually involves, what the first three months feel like, and the questions that decide between them.

What this guide covers

The one number that matters most

Every method has two effectiveness figures. Perfect use is how well it works when it is used exactly right, every single time. Typical use is how well it works for real people with jobs, travel, illness and forgetfulness. For the methods that depend on you remembering something, the gap between those two numbers is enormous, and typical use is the honest one.

Fewer than 1 pregnancy per 100 women a yearNothing to remember, nothing to get wrongImplantHormonal IUSCopper IUDFemale sterilizationVasectomyBetween 4 and 13 pregnancies per 100 women a yearWork well in trials, less well in real life, because they depend on youInjectable, 4Pill, 7Patch, 7Vaginal ring, 7Diaphragm, 12Male condom, 1320 or more pregnancies per 100 women a yearBetter than nothing, and not what to rely on if pregnancy would be a problemWithdrawal, 20Female condom, 21Spermicide, 27Fertility awareness, 2 to 34Typical-use failure rates: pregnancies in the first year of use, per 100 women. Source: CDC and Guttmacher Institute figures. With no method at all, 85 in 100.
Methods grouped by how well they actually workThe top tier works because there is nothing to remember. The middle tier works well in trials and less well in life. Choosing between tiers matters far more than choosing within one.

Notice what separates the tiers. It is not how modern the method is or how much it costs. It is whether it depends on a decision you have to make correctly, repeatedly, for years. That is the whole design principle behind the long-acting methods, and it is why they are recommended so strongly for anyone who is certain they do not want to be pregnant soon.

The methods, one by one

The table below covers what is actually available in India, including two options widely used here that do not appear in Western guides at all.

A couple consults a female doctor for preconception care advice.
The right method depends far more on what you want the next few years to look like than on which option is newest.
Method
How it works and how often
Worth knowing

Choosing by what actually matters to you

The right method is rarely the most effective one on paper. It is the most effective one you will still be using in two years. These are the questions that decide it.

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The best method is not the most effective one on paper. It is the one you will still be using in two years.

Emergency contraception

Emergency contraception is not an abortion and it does not work if you are already pregnant. It works by delaying ovulation, which is why timing relative to your cycle matters as much as timing relative to the incident.

Starting, stopping and switching

If you begin within the first five days of a period, most methods work straight away. Started at any other point, you need a barrier method for the first seven days, or two days for the older progestogen-only pills. Ask specifically which applies to what you have been given, because it is the most common gap in the counseling.

There is usually an overlap rule so that you are never uncovered. Do not stop one and wait for an appointment to start the next. Plan the switch with your doctor, and expect to use condoms across the join.

Contraception should be started by day 21 after childbirth, because ovulation can return before your first period does. Progestogen-only methods, including the pill, implant and injectable, can be started at any time, including immediately. An IUD or IUS goes in either within 48 hours of delivery or from 28 days onwards. Combined hormonal contraception waits until day 21 if you are not breastfeeding and have no clot risk factors, and until six weeks if you are breastfeeding.

Contraception should be started immediately. If it is started within five days, no additional cover is needed. Fertility returns quickly, and the assumption that there is a safe gap afterwards is one of the more common reasons for an unplanned pregnancy soon after.

Fertility returns immediately after stopping the pill, removing an implant, or removing an IUD or IUS. There is no need to wait a few months before trying, and no evidence that doing so helps. The exception is the injectable, where return of fertility can take several months and is not predictable.

What to do depends on which pill, how many, and where in the packet you are. Do not guess. Every packet has instructions, and a phone call to the clinic takes two minutes and is a better use of your evening than searching online.

Side effects: what is common and what is not

Myth

“You need a break from the pill every few years.”

What is actually true

You do not. There is no benefit to a break, and the risk during one is an unplanned pregnancy. If a method is suiting you, continuing is safe. If it is not suiting you, the answer is a different method rather than a pause.

Myth

“The IUD is only for women who have already had children.”

What is actually true

Not true, and this belief keeps the most effective reversible methods away from the women who most need them. Both the copper IUD and the hormonal IUS can be used whether or not you have been pregnant. Insertion can be more uncomfortable, and pain relief for it should be discussed properly rather than dismissed.

Myth

“Hormonal contraception causes infertility.”

What is actually true

It does not. Fertility returns immediately after stopping the pill or removing an implant or IUS. What can happen is that a method masks an underlying problem such as irregular ovulation for years, so the problem is noticed when you stop rather than caused by it.

Myth

“Emergency contraception is an abortion.”

What is actually true

It is not. It works mainly by delaying ovulation, and it has no effect on an established pregnancy. This is a distinction worth being clear about, because the confusion stops people getting it in time to work.

Myth

“If my periods stop on the injection or the IUS, blood is building up inside.”

What is actually true

Nothing accumulates. The lining is simply kept thin, so there is little to shed. It is not harmful, it is reversible, and for many women it is a benefit rather than a side effect.

What a contraception consultation should cover

Ten minutes, done properly, saves a great deal. If none of this happened at your last one, it is reasonable to ask for it.

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Ten minutes covering your plans, your periods and your history usually changes the answer. Most women are on a method nobody discussed with them.

Typical-use and perfect-use failure rates are the CDC figures as compiled by the Guttmacher Institute. Timing of contraception after childbirth, miscarriage and abortion, and the lactational amenorrhea criteria, follow the FSRH guideline on contraception after pregnancy. The levonorgestrel-releasing intrauterine system as first-line treatment for heavy menstrual bleeding follows NICE guideline NG88. Centchroman dosing and trial efficacy are as published by CSIR-Central Drug Research Institute, which developed it. This guide is general information and does not replace advice from your own doctor, who has your history and your results.

Guides and tools that go with this

Periods and Menstrual Health

What a normal cycle actually is, when heavy or painful is worth investigating, and what treatment exists.

Postnatal Recovery Guide

Including why contraception is needed from day 21 whether or not your periods have restarted.

Trying to Conceive Guide

For when you stop. Fertility returns immediately after most methods, and there is no need to wait.

Ovulation Calculator

Useful for understanding your own cycle. Not a contraceptive method on its own.

One conversation is usually enough

Most women are on a method nobody discussed with them properly, chosen years ago for reasons that no longer apply. A single appointment covering what you want in the next few years, your periods and your history usually changes the answer.

Contraception questions we hear most

The implant, the hormonal IUS and the copper IUD, all at fewer than one pregnancy per 100 women a year. What they share is that nothing depends on you remembering anything. The pill is just as effective when taken perfectly, but typical use across a year is around seven pregnancies per 100 women, which is the number that describes real life.
Yes. Both the copper IUD and the hormonal IUS can be used whether or not you have been pregnant, and the belief otherwise keeps the most effective reversible methods away from the women who would benefit most. Insertion can be more uncomfortable, so pain relief should be discussed properly beforehand rather than brushed aside.
Immediately, after the pill, the implant, the IUS or the copper IUD. There is no need to wait a few cycles and no benefit in doing so. The one exception is the three-monthly injectable, where fertility can take several months to return and the timing is not predictable, which is why it does not suit someone planning a pregnancy soon.
Yes. There is nothing medically necessary about the bleed in the pill-free week, which was designed in rather than discovered. Running packets together, or using a continuous regimen, is safe and is often the better option for period pain, migraine around periods, or endometriosis. Ask about the regimen that suits you rather than assuming the packet dictates it.
The progestogen-only pill, the implant, the injectable, the copper IUD, the hormonal IUS and centchroman are all compatible with breastfeeding. Combined hormonal contraception waits until six weeks after the birth. Contraception should be started by day 21 regardless, because ovulation can return before your first period.
For most methods the evidence is much weaker than the reputation. The clearest association is with the three-monthly injectable, where some women do gain weight. For the pill, the implant and the IUS, studies have generally not found the effect that the reputation suggests. That does not mean your experience is imaginary, and it is a reasonable reason to change method.
Levonorgestrel works up to three days after and works better the sooner it is taken. Ulipristal works up to five days. The copper IUD is effective up to five days after the incident, or up to five days after the earliest likely ovulation, and it is the most effective option of the three by a wide margin. It also becomes your ongoing contraception, which is why it is worth asking about rather than waiting for it to be offered.
Chhaya, also sold as Saheli, is centchroman or ormeloxifene, a non-hormonal tablet developed in India by CSIR-CDRI. It is taken twice a week for the first twelve weeks and once a week after that, and it is available free through the national program. It suits women who want to avoid hormones and is safe while breastfeeding. On effectiveness it sits below the long-acting methods, with a Pearl index near 3.8 in trials, so the trade-off is real and worth understanding before choosing it.
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